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My Experience At The Dalai Lama’s 80th Birthday Celebration

Dalai Lama 80th Birthday

This past Sunday my husband and I ventured to the Honda Center in Anaheim, California for the Dalai Lama’s 80th Birthday celebration.  The Dalai Lama holds a special place in my heart because it was just a few years ago that my father and I were visiting San Diego.  When we went up to our hotel room there he was, the Dalai Lama staying on our floor (he was speaking at UC San Diego).  Not only was he staying on the floor but he was in the room next to ours.  So for a week I got to sleep next to the Dalai Lama.

I learned a lot from the Dalai Lama, especially about forgiveness.  Here is a peaceful man whose religion is compassion.  He won a Nobel Prize in 1989 for being an advocate for peace and freedom.  The Chinese invaded his country of Tibet in 1959 and forced him into exile.  He could hate the Chinese but he instead forgave them then stood as the head of the nonviolent opposition to China’s occupation of his home country.

It would seem like the only opposition the Dalai Lama SHOULD have would be the Chinese.  When my husband and I drove into the parking lot we were shocked to see the protestors outside.  The BUDDHIST protestors who were shouting, “Stop lying Dalai Lama.”

These protestors are Shudgen followers, a sect of Buddhism. The Dalai Lama used to include Shugden in his daily prayer but renounced the practice in 1975 because he felt that Shugden was a malevolent spirit that was dividing Tibetans.  The protestors claim that by the Dalai Lama rejecting Shugden, that he is practicing religious discrimination.  Personally, I think the Dalai Lama was doing the best for his people and he doesn’t say that followers of Shugden shouldn’t practice their beliefs.

Once inside the venue I was shocked to see that there were many seats available.  The LA Times and other outlets said 18,000 came out to see the Dalai Lama. It was not sold out.

The event itself was more like a birthday roast minus the roasting.  Ann Curry of “Today Show” fame was the master of ceremony.  The Dalai Lama sat down and there were many chairs beside him and behind him.

One by one Ann called up guests to wish the Dalai Lama a happy birthday.  Nobel Peace Prize winners Jody Williams and Shirin Ebadi spoke about the great work of the Dalai Lama as well as their causes.  Bishop Desmond Tutu’s Grandson spoke then a few more activists fighting for change spoke.  I was feeling emotional and inspired from their speeches then … a slew of lower level celebrities stepped up to the podium.

Julia Ormond, the actress, got up to speak about the Dalai Lama when someone in the crowd asked her to sit down and let his Holiness speak.  It’s what we were all thinking. We didn’t come to the Honda Center to listen to “celebrities” talk about humanitarianism…unless you’re Angelina Jolie, but I guess she wasn’t available.

The “celebrity” guests on the stage read like an upcoming season of “Dancing With the Stars.”  The “celebrities” were:  George Lopez, Randy Jackson (American Idol), Wilmer Valderrama (That  70’s Show), Josh Radnor (How I Met Your Mother), some dude named Cody Simpson and the best of them all…MC HAMMER!  Um excuse me, what?!  MC Hammer?  His greatest contribution to the world was Jeannie pants.

The worst part is that they sat these celebs up front next to the Dalai Lama and relegated the Nobel Prize winners to the back row.  The actors and musicians had nothing to say or add to the discussion of compassion or spirituality.

I think the event organizers were like, “hey, It’s Los Angeles, let’s give them some Hollywood glitz and glamour…Who would be the cheapest to get?”  Finally after the parade of D-listers the Dalai Lama finally spoke and we were all in rapt attention.

He spoke and was brief but brilliant.  Then he sat down and there was a Q and A session.  I was down for the first two questions because they seemed on point with spiritual nature of the event but then there was a question from George Lopez.  George asked the Dalai Lama about what do to about negativity on social media.  Specifically how hurt he is when people say bad things about him on Twitter.

Way to show the audience how self involved you are!  The Dalai Lama kind of skirted over the issue and talked about criticism and your own truth.  After MC Hammer and Randy Jackson began to talk about being artists and giving back to the world through their “art” I started to notice that people were fleeing the Honda Center in droves.

My husband and I just couldn’t take it any longer either so we left as well.  Even though it was frustrating having to sit through the questionable dias guests, we got to see the Dalai Lama and hear him speak.  I was spiritually moved and it made me think, wouldn’t it be great in the Dalai Lama’s lifetime we could see an end to violence and live in a world full of peace, forgiveness, kindness and compassion?

4 Responses to “My Experience At The Dalai Lama’s 80th Birthday Celebration”

  1. Evan Grill

    Well done. Nicely stated. Xoxo

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    From:”The Self Worth Diet” Date:Mon, Jul 6, 2015 at 1:17 PM Subject:[New post] My Experience At The Dalai Lama’s 80th Birthday Celebration

    Mara Shapshay posted: ” This past Sunday my husband and I ventured to the Honda Center in Anaheim, California for the Dalai Lama’s 80th Birthday celebration.  The Dalai Lama holds a special place in my heart because it was just a few years ago that my father and I were visitin”

  2. Panda

    Whew! I am soooo glad to see that I am not a minority in seeing how absurd this whole event was! If you left early, you must have missed the end when the Dalai Lama was presented with a “special gift,” which was a cirque du soleil-style dance performance, better suited for Burning Man. A giant lotus flower descended upon the stage and opened up to a woman dancing on a pole inside of it, with three more dancers on stage. At the end, Ann Curry asks the Dalai Lama if he liked it. Seemingly hesitant, he said “very good.” Then finally he was given the stage to speak for himself again, and jokingly, he said to the audience “okay goodbye,” before coming back to the mic for some last words on his commitment to peace and compassion.

    And how about Ann’s comment to the Dalai Lama when presenting MC Hammer: “with all due respect, your holiness, you can’t touch this.” OMG I can’t get over it! It was like an SNL skit!

    The whole thing was both horrifying and hilarious, kinda like when that woman in Europe decided to “restore” an old painting of Jesus and ended up ruining it instead. I think that’s what LA culture tends to do with spirituality.

    • Mara Shapshay

      I think the producer of the event got it totally wrong and yes I agree with the Hollywoodized version of spirituality here in LA. I am so glad I missed the stripper pole at the end. Thanks for reading the piece and commenting. xoxoxo Mara


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